It's Our Job To First Make Ourselves

Worrying, Obsessing, And Controlling Are Illusions. They Are Tricks We Play On Ourselves.

Today I Will Let Go Of My Need For Approval And My Need To Be Liked. Instead, I Will Choose To Like And Approve Of Myself. The People Who Count (including Me) Will Respect Me When I'm True To Who I Really Am.

A Codependent Person Is One Who Has Let Another Person's Behavior Affect Him Or Her And Who Is Obsessed With Controlling That Person's Behavior.

There Are No Knights On White Horses, No Magical Grandmothers In The Sky Watching, Waiting To Rescue Us. Teachers May Come Our Way, But They Will Not Rescue. They Will Teach. People Who Care Will Come, But They Will Not Rescue. They Will Care. Help Will Come, But Help Is Not Rescuing. We Are Our Own Rescuers. Our Relationships Will Improve Dramatically When We Stop Rescuing Others And Stop Expecting Them To Rescue Us.

Believing That Things Happen Too Slowly Or Too Quickly Is An Illusion. Timing Is Perfect.